A New Sri Lanka?
Maithripala Sirisena is the President of Sri Lanka. What was unthinkable two months ago is news today. There is hope today that we can emerge from the lawlessness, corruption, nepotism and racism that we are sunk in. That we can become the plural, vibrant, democratic country we ought to be.
Of course Sri Lanka’s problems are still around. Today, Sri Lanka is not ruled by law – it is ruled by connections and political influence. Today, nepotism and corruption are rampant. Today, there is a deep and fundamental ethnic divide. Mahinda Rajapaksa’s defeat may mean that we have a better chance of dealing with these problems, but it is by no means a guarantee.
After all, we know that Rajapaksa was not the root of these problems. He contributed to them in the last ten years, but they existed before him and will continue after him. The idea that we should ‘help’ our family or friends at the expense of our public duty is still part of our way of thinking. The belief that breaking the law is OK as long as we don’t get caught has seeped into us. Racism, and the mistrust and hatred it breeds, are a part of all communities, and, I would add, a part of all of us. Sirisena’s election may create more space to deal with these problems, but it will not make them go away. For that to happen, we need to change.
Why? Because what a society is like depends a great deal on what its people are like. It takes a certain type of society for politicians like Mervyn Silva to exist. It takes a certain type of society for things like the 18th amendment and the impeachment to happen. It takes a certain type of society for open disregard of the law to be met with a shrug of the shoulders. Apathy, disinterest, and an “aiyo-what-to-do-men?” mentality are all a part of why we got to where we are today.
It’s easy to blame Mahinda or the weak Opposition or the so-called “ignorant masses” for these problems. But we need to realize that we were also part of the problem. We were silent when we should have spoken. We slipped easily into apathy. We tended to ignore problems that didn’t directly affect us. We would not stand up for what was right if it meant trouble for us. In societies like this it is easy for the law to be subverted, for the weak to be downtrodden, and for any ruler to become a tyrant.
No matter how many new Presidents we elect, independent commissions we appoint, laws we pass, or constitutions we propose, our problems will remain unless we change. To create an inclusive, pluralistic and democratic society, we need to be inclusive, pluralistic and democratic wherever we have influence or power. To create a culture that values the rule of law, diversity, dissent and the vulnerable we need to be people who value those things. If we want a new Sri Lanka we need to be a new Sri Lanka. It cannot be legislated or voted into existence.
“Insignificant” Individuals
It is easy to read this and think that individuals are too small and insignificant to make any difference. Once the euphoria of the election and people power wears off, it will be easy to slip into a sense of powerlessness. To think that while we may be able to vote and change things every now and then, that it’s actually those people “over there” – the politicians, the religious leaders, the government officials – who can change things. Or to believe that even if individuals can make a difference, it’s only the ones who are “connected” or “smart” or the “activist type” who can actually do something.
This idea must be challenged. History is full of “insignificant” individuals who made a difference because they did what they could from where they were. Look at Rosa Parks, whose refusal to give up her seat for a white passenger was a catalyst for the American Civil Rights movement. Think of Mukhtaran Bibi, an illiterate Pakistani woman who was gang-raped and decided to take her attackers to court despite the odds of a shari’a legal system, where rape needs to be proved by four adult male witnesses. She succeeded, became a symbol for women’s rights in Pakistan, and a year later Pakistan changed its legal code concerning rape. Take Amnesty International, which began with a single individual writing a letter to a newspaper about the unjust imprisonment and torture of people by their governments, and ended as an organization with global reach and influence. Individuals, normal “insignificant” individuals, have immense power to change things.
How come individuals can change things? We are powerful because we are the grassroots. We are the culture. We all have power and influence in our own spheres – in our homes, offices, schools and neighbourhoods. If we act collectively, we have enormous power.
For instance, each of us is placed in a unique position in relation to our friends, family or people at school or work. If I was to go up to some of them and start a conversation about what a plural Sri Lanka should look like, they might think I was weird at best. But if you did, they would listen. If I was to talk to them about how we all are a little bit racist, they might shut their ears. But if you did, they would listen. And some of them would change. The fact is we are more open to the views and ideas of those who are close to us. And each of us is close to certain people in a way that no one else is. As individuals, this is where our power lies.
As individuals we are also uniquely placed to fight everyday injustice in our own spheres – in the office, the street, the bus and at school. We may not be able to pass legislation on sexual harassment, but we can stand up for those who are being harassed on the bus or the street. We may not have the power to arrest those responsible for hate speech – but we can challenge anti-Muslim sentiment among our friends. We may not be able to end structural racism, but we are each uniquely placed to fight racism within our own communities – for instance a Tamil challenging racism among Tamils can be far more effective than someone else doing so. And as we do this, as individual attitudes and everyday injustice is challenged, we are able to help transform culture, and push society as a whole towards change.
In the end, society is changed by the everyday acts of ordinary individuals, in classrooms, offices, fields, towns, cities and villages. If we don’t change, things won’t change. Only when we become a new us, will we begin to see a new Sri Lanka.
Of course it won’t be easy. Change never is, and there will be failure, discouragement and disappointment. But since when do we only fight for something because it’s easy? We want equality, freedom and justice because they are good and because they are right, not because it’s easy to get them. Whether we win or not is a different matter. But you can be sure that we have a better chance of winning if more of us try.
The first step to a new Sri Lanka is with us. We need to act.
(This is the first in a series. The next article is here. It suggests things individuals can “do tomorrow”, as part of being the change. There are more to come, so if you have any suggestions, leave them in the comments, or better yet write something an article about them and share it! Thanks.)
Tomorrow when I wake up I will decide to say NO ! No to using influence to get my child into a particular school or that prestigious job. I will say No to walking away when I see the unfair treatment of a vendor by a customer who wields power over another arrogantly . I will say No to lethargic attitudes to work and civic responsibility. instead I will say YES ! yes to all the differences I can make to my neighbour , my society, my country. The differences are manifold and certainly need not be groundbreaking, rather , they could be spontaneous gestures of kindness and decisive action that renews belief and restores hope in the sons and daughters of our land.
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I fully agree with you
There is no point to sit at home and critieze
each one of us should think how we can over come this problem and if we make genuine effort, I am sure we will succeed
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Thank you so much for this encouraging and motivating piece. I agree with you a hundred percent.
Tomorrow I will stop complaining and criticising those attempting to change the political culture in this country for the better. I may have an opinion on how I think the job should be done. But I am not in their position and am not privy to the kind of pressure they are under. Therefore I will respect their endeavours, pray that they be blessed with wisdom and courage to follow the course of justice and equity and not let the hope that has been ignited within me from being doused by any negativity.
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one of the best articles ever written about our position today. How many of us new the corrupt MR regime with lawlessness and nepotism there in the open for us to see. Though we new about all these, very few us even made a noise about it public (for their own fear, I guess) Not even journalist ventured out to criticise except on occasion by the Mirror and Sunday times. The Daily News and the Island were simply subservient and their articles were not worth reading. Hence, we stopped buying these papers.
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Excellent article. Looking forward to reading your next write up with all these issues, which as you so written most of us are guilty of ignoring the real issues which we could have contributed to reform.
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Thank you everyone for your comments.
Aunty Cheryl, will keep your suggestions in mind for the remaining posts, thank you.
the cautious optimist, I certainly agree we should give the new set the space to put their reforms in place. and of course, we don’t have all the information about the problems they face as they try to implement their proposals. However, I do think we need to be vigilant, and criticise them if necessary, especially if it seems that they are going off track.
chandra, the next article has been posted and can be found at https://dsrajasingham.wordpress.com/2015/01/17/being-a-new-sri-lanka/
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In a nut-shell, “be the change you want to see!” We need more articles like yours, to get us out of the doldrums we have sunk into. Keep it up buddy!
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Thank you!
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Thank you Priyanthie!
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Dear Sanjayan, Now we are talking; getting to the core of our human psyche. Keep writing please , God bless
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Thank you! The follow up article is also up now.
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I have done my bit in saying NO to injustice when situation demanded in my working life and socially but sadly did not go public due to not having faith in the society leaders. However I can now see a glimmer of hope in some civil society leaders who have no political agendas except to see a just society. May be I will join them in future.
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Preethi, those like yourself who are willing to say no to injustice are an inspiration to us all.
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A great article– made me think. I am sure this made many to think as well. All strength to your elbow, sir.
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If anything was proven by the election that was just over, it is that WE COUNT. Finally, it is we, the people, who have the last word, no matter how much despots, tyrants and dictators may try to suppress and suffocate us. That irrefutable fact has been proven the world over and history is replete with many shining examples of individuals and societies regaining the glory that was temporarily lost for their motherlands, by taking a stand and being counted for what is right. Mahatma Gandhi and Nelson Mandela will be eternal examples of what societies can achieve if and when people heed their inner voices and bravely take a stand against what is unacceptable. The space that opened up to us Sri Lankans as a result of the people’s verdict at the last election is fragrantly rich with promise. We must not sacrifice a second’s worth in time to grasp this great opportunity to restore to our beloved motherland the glory that is hers. Each and everyone of us must act, in our own ways, from now on, to heed that call, and maintain the control that we demonstrated in such an unambiguous fashion, to our politicians, .
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It is a great article with highly principled ideas. But besides the theoretical side, do take the practical side into consideration. A Govt. Official might not have a choice in carrying out an inappropriate order from a Minister. The repercussions of doing so could effect him, his family and livelihood. They have children to educate, loans to repay etc. and taking a principled stand is not a luxury many of them can afford. Having said that, I fully endorse the abolition of calling favors from the ‘old boy’ network.
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You raise an important issue. In situations where one’s life is in danger, I suppose it is a much harder choice. In situations where it means other hardships and inconveniences, it is perhaps more straightforward, though hard all the same. I would like to suggest, however, that there are several smaller things that we can do in our spheres. Some of them will be relatively easy, some will be more costly. Maybe we can start with the easy ones? The next post lists a few, and the following ones will build on it.
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Sanjayan excellent article. Good eyeopener. As you say start in a small way within your capacity but the yield can been seen may be in years to come. Positive influence on ordinary individuals who has no connections can be a better influence on an other. Right thinking individuals with no hidden agendas is what we need today. Lets get motivated with this for a better tomorrow.
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I have no words and I really do not know how to express my gratitude to this writer. To tell the truth there is nothing new here about our short falls.. We all know that we are wrong in many ways of our lives. But we do not act or react when we were supposed to do. But this article gives the encouragement and the reasoning to stand up for the right thing and I will do that at any cost now on. Thank you, Sanjayan.
And underline this sentence in your article above: a Tamil challenging racism among Tamils can be far more effective than someone else doing so.
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“Even in the most difficult circumstances, you can be brave if you want to”
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At last Sri Lankans can express their views without fear.
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What an article – it stirs the heart, gives pointers to what each of us as a single individual can contribute in a small measure in changing this decadent and pathetic society into a better one. Gives me hope that some day I could feel “pride” in being a SriLankan living in a country that has restored basic decency, honesty and regard for law and order, irrespective of who you are. Looking forward to reading your next article.
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Excellent piece. Really made me think. Keep writing! We all need this kind of “wake up call”….God Bless you.
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Yes, it is truly an eye-opener, however these are things we knew in our hearts all along but did not have the courage to pursue I guess, due to the fear of repercussions from distorted minds; hence looking for the easy way out was the norm. Now, with renewed hope we must try to redeem our land so as to leave it a better place for our future generations. I haven’t read the follow-up article yet, but I have always thought that change has to begin from the grassroots. We need to have parallel campaigns in every sphere (parents of school-going kids would be a good place to start) to educate people beginning from simple courtesies like not throwing garbage anywhere and everywhere, to showing courtesy to a fellow road user while driving. It’s the little things that mould a person to be what he becomes in later life.
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You speak for all those who can comprehend.
Stand up for the change you want accomplished.
Whats good for the Goose MUST be good for the GANDER.
Every one in Sri Lanka should comprehend the fact that NOTHING is free.
It cant be given free as everything has its basic cost and somebody, somehow has to pay for it, sometime.
As a matter of fact, we are still paying for stuff that were given free 20 years ago.
If WE Sri Lankans, can comprehend the fact that the individual contribution to good governance is adhered, demanded and respected – WE WILL HAVE GOOD GOVERNANCE.
It is our RIGHT and we have to respect every individual’s RIGHT to good governance.
No matter what the divide is – RACIAL; RELIGIOUS; CASTE; LOYALTY; LANGUAGE; POLITICAL; AMONG OTHERS;
If each Sri Lankan respects that every other Sri Lankan has the same rights we will move forward.
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Sanjayan I quoted you in my article here below – in the last para
https://www.colombotelegraph.com/index.php/with-maithri-ranil-mangala-real-change-should-occur-for-tamils-too/
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Thanks Usha!
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Thanks for the well written article. Very well timed too. “If people begin leading the Leaders would follow”. Dissa
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Someone’s finally said it in the best way possible. May your words continue to heal the eyes of those blinded.
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Thanks Dhanya 🙂
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Are you related to the late Rajasingham twins from Wesley College, Colombo?
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No Nizar, not related to them 🙂
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